I love this picture of me – haha no not because I think I am a gorgeous hot babe
(although !!! 55 this month and still got at least some of it !!)
No its the finger pointing – I know rude to point but on this occasion Donna Thompson of Brilliant Liverpool Tours captured me on a boat on the Leeds Liverpool with a coffee delivering an empowerment meeting……. Pointing to the word SELF
What a fabulous Word SELF because self means ME – YOU – US – yup no one else Just us as lovely meeeeeee’s
A lot of people I speak to shun the word Selfish because they see it as a negative
Maybe we have been brought up being told not to be selfish because we hogged the toys from our little brother or we eat the last biscuit in the box without sharing it.
So I’m not saying go and snaffle the last of the crumpets and steal your sisters mascara because you want it.
I’m saying – think about yourself more
What do you want to happen in your life
What do you want to do today
What type of relationship do you want
How do you want to live your life
And then once you have started thinking about yourself and making small but significant changes you will become
I know this works because I have done it myself – its not an easy thing to do when you have “responsibility” and Others tugging at your time or your energy
In my workshops I will be doing sessions on How to be Selfish and still be Nice !! In fact you’ll be nicer than you ever have been because you will no longer be fed up serving others –
So here’s “THINGY NUMBER TWO” Be more Selfish and you will become more happy – that’s for sure.
My next Meet up is 12th April but there will be loads more – with different topics and in the Autumn there is a great big Seminar coming to boost up positive thoughts and lives !!!