I love this picture of me – haha no not because I think I am a gorgeous hot babe

(although !!! 55 this month and still got at least some of it !!)

No its the finger pointing – I know rude to point but on this occasion Donna Thompson of Brilliant Liverpool Tours captured me on a boat on the Leeds Liverpool with a coffee delivering an empowerment meeting……. Pointing to the word SELF

What a fabulous Word SELF  because self means ME – YOU – US – yup no one else Just us as lovely meeeeeee’s

A lot of people I speak to shun the word Selfish because they see it as a negative

Maybe we have been brought up being told not to be selfish because we hogged the toys from our little brother or we eat the last biscuit in the box without sharing it.

So I’m not saying go and snaffle the last of the crumpets and steal your sisters mascara because you want it.

I’m saying – think about yourself more

What do you want to happen in your life

What do you want to do today

What type of relationship do you want

How do you want to live your life


And then once you have started thinking about yourself and making small but significant changes you will become



I know this works because I have done it myself – its not an easy thing to do when you have “responsibility” and Others tugging at your time or your energy


In my workshops I will be doing sessions on How to be Selfish and still be Nice !!  In fact you’ll be nicer than you ever have been because you will no longer be fed up serving others  –


So here’s “THINGY NUMBER TWO”    Be more Selfish and you will become more happy – that’s for sure.

My next Meet up is 12th April but there will be loads more – with different topics and in the Autumn there is a great big Seminar coming to boost up positive thoughts and lives !!!





Tuesday, Apr 12, 2016, 6:00 PM

Location details are available to members only.

10 Inspired Minds Went

Come along to this extra long meet up next Tuesday -We are going to be having a big discussion about how exactly to use the Law of Attraction to get exactly what we want.This session is only for followers of the Law of AttractionI will be holding lots of meet ups and retreats and one to onesThe meet up price is £8 if you book this week – th…

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Author: gillfell

I am passionate about helping people achieve more out of life, I have lots of ideas and information about staying upbeat, healthy and getting what you want out of life. My mission is to help you transform your mindset so you really believe you can have the life you want. I have tried and tested techniques for you, I will help you get there and enjoy happiness along your journey.

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