Day 2 of my little blog exercise…. shoot from the hip and don’t look back…..#100menopausaldays

In the spirit (there she goes again an obsession with Gin) of winging it, shooting from the hip and DOING SOMETHING without fear of reprocussion or hate or any type of fear. I’m writing another very short blog today..

NOW IN FACT

It’s a wonderful modern world out there, I can see the change from when I were a kid ! But our mental health seems to be deteriorating – or is it just that we are now put directly onto an anti depressant – where before we just accepted we were a miserable person –

During my years of trying to “Get back to Happy” I have noticed more about myself and others (I just love to people watch and facebook makes it so easy) – I see wonderful, in fact, perfect lives, photo’s of lovely events, check in’s to fabulous places and Live coverage of things that I am just not at !!!

“Why is everyone else having all the fun” I have frequently asked myself, Feeling well up when you notice every check in or fabulous photo !!! grrrrrr

Gosh they are having fun … why am I indoors watching Silent Witness b bum…..

Well Gill Fell, maybe you have not exactly been the life and soul of the party lately well probably for the last 12 years so it is likely that you may have been side tracked, people sometimes use others to make their lives better – are you the “up -lifter” but what happens when YOU are down?

Who jumps in to up lift you? does anyone know how to up lift a feeling down Up Lifter ???

Ah haaaaaaa

Well there is not right or wrong way, My husband knows this only too well.. Because he knows that I have a SERIOUS …. desire to RIP HIS HEAD OFFFFFFFF every now and again.. and that could be because I heard him breathe… Lolly – I am having a little giggle right now, Simon (hubby) has been through so much with me being the attention seeker I am (hospital this, scan that)

and now, as if I havn’t put him through enough I give him…… as a gift….. d 7 years (so far) of menopause (what is that all about – for goodness sake, why give women who are the earth’s gold dust the menopause……. GIVE US A BREAK Will ya), he has the ability to forgive my little Dark Moments …… and jump into the cabin with me or the boat ….. errrr after Golf !!!!

He loves Golf, he says it’s his meditation !!! (can’t argue with that.. well ok yes I could)

CABIN ???? BOAT????? ….NICE HOME WITH DECKING ????

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Now come along Gillian – I hear everyone shout !!!!!!!!! – Yeah go on shout at me !!!

I have it all – well I have a Cabin a home, a husband, kids, a boat !!!!!!!

Ahhhhh message receiving………………..GRATITUDE TIME

………………………………………………… that was me counting my blessings……………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………MORE……………………………………………………………………………………………………………………….AHHHHHHHHH that’s better….

My little meet up group (who I abandoned) soz about that – but you never know I may return…..

Why did I abandon it ? Because I needed Up-Lifting???? But guess what I learnt

You really do have to uplift yourself and the best way is not to focus on others but what you have and breathe, and hear the birds sing and get yourself an affirmation…

I am happy, I am loved (even if by myself) I am me – I can do stuff, I can , I will and it will all be fabulous just like me.

Remember everyone has a story and facebook only shows a snippet.

Do something fun today. Play your tunes, Love yourself because you are Awesome

Start planning happy things for yourself.. Don’t worry if right now you have no one – no friends – it’s just you.

Expect wonderful things to happen and get out…….

CHECK YOURSELF IN TO THE LOCAL PARK OR FORREST !!!

I love you xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Gill
POSITIVE NOT PERFECT

ps JOIN ME ON THIS QUEST – DO YOUR OWN 100 DAYS THING…. my thanks goes today to @Donna Thompson who has up -lifted me to do 100 days

Day 2 done… and I feel happier for it………..Thank you xxxxxxxxxxxxx

MINDS OF STEEL – MEETING OF THE MINDS WITH GILL & GUEST SPEAKERS

Monday, Jun 5, 2017, 6:00 PM

Leaf
65 – 67 Bold Street Liverpool L1 4EZ, GB

80 Inspired Minds Went

BIG POWERFUL MEET UP WITH GILL FELL AND GUEST SPEAKERSBREAKING NEWS……. We now have the clever and happy, Happiness Ninja speaking at the event… I will also be chatting away in between speakers about my fast pace life coach thing, and Amanda Moss will be spoken about (by me) she has had a better offer so in the true style of having a mind of …

Check out this Meetup →

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Author: gillfell

I am passionate about helping people achieve more out of life, I have lots of ideas and information about staying upbeat, healthy and getting what you want out of life. My mission is to help you transform your mindset so you really believe you can have the life you want. I have tried and tested techniques for you, I will help you get there and enjoy happiness along your journey.

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